12.07.09 - Life is so fragil! :(

On 9th July 2009 , My Brother in law's father left this world with no last words as he left suddenly when he was playing chess and drinking coffee with his usual friends. He felt heartache , stand up and fainted. He was certified dead on the way to the hospital . :(
Everything came so fast , it was so hard for his wife to take it. She was depressed ... She almost lost it at the hospital , behaving like a little kid asking her husband to go home ... I can totally feel her lost.

Today 12th July 2009 , My Secondary school friend ( a rather close one) called and told me , her mother passed away . She is 60 this year . She had a stroke and she was in the hospital in and out of ICU for 1 month and left suddenly after everyone left for home. She too didnt get to see her loved ones before she was annouced brain dead.

Life ... Life is really very fragil , it's scarcy to even think ablout it. I have not fully come to term about Jiu Jiu 's death and sometimes hopes he is still around. I think of him all the time and misses him so so very much. He did not even gave me a chance to return half of what he gave me ....

With all these death around me in this week , I told myself , dun be shy about telling ur love ones how much you love them , kiss them and hug them while you still can ...I love you darling keith and hazel ... I love you my hubby Vincent Tay - (dun forget ur promise to live one day more than me !) I love you daddy and mummy and everything you all did for me and my kids. I am really greatful to have the both of u. My sisters and brother - May we be each other's pillar at all times ( good and bad) and love each other and make time for each other ! :)

Thank you god for all my family and friends and bless them with happiness and Good Health!